What is Energy Intelligence?

You may have heard of emotional intelligence and the soft skills required to build great relationships, such as trust, connection and kindness. All of these are crucial in horsemanship, but the next level work is “energy intelligence.”

Simply put, energy intelligence is the awareness of your own energy resources and the ability to influence your energy output in life and work.

As Nikola Tesla said, “If you want to find the secrets of the universe, think in terms of energy, frequency and vibration.” While emotional intelligence is mostly about relationships and communication, energy intelligence is often about how we each govern ourselves and show up for life.

When you have more energy, you are often clearer and have more motivation, which then creates better relationships and performance. Your energy doesn’t just impact communication, it’s a form of communication.

Applying to Horses

In the horse world, other people assume that you love your equines all the time. Most of us do until we don’t—and then we need a break from mucking, riding, showing, or working with clients as trainers or instructors.

This can be an unspoken issue. Many can suffer in silence because of these expectations that a “horse girl” always wants to live and breathe riding. Yet when you’re exhausted and depleted, your interest can become diminished and—more importantly—your safety as well.

You’ve probably heard stories of people who rode when they shouldn’t have and paid the price in some way. When you’re too tired, it’s a signpost that you need to respect your own energy resources so burnout can be prevented.

It’s the same for your horse. You probably know not to push him, but are still tempted to push yourself—and horses feel this as well.

They can sense and feel your physical state as well as your emotional, mental, and spiritual states. They know and read your energy, but do you? Ultimately, the goal is more connection with your horse, and that comes down to energy intelligence.

Happier and Healthier

Brene Brown says: “I define connection as the energy that exists between people when they feel seen, heard, and valued; when they can give and receive without judgment; and when they derive sustenance and strength from the relationship.”

This is true for horses as well, and when they are happier and healthier, they’re more productive and connected. One of the ways you can value them is to adjust your energy when you are with them to be authentic, congruent and joyful. However, it’s much easier to do this when you are rested, clear, and present, which is when you are managing your energy well.

You can also note when your horse exhibits enjoyment and engagement and has a healthy flow of energy in his work and with his herd. Often making adjustments to his basic needs, such as friends, food, water, shelter, and exercise can help him feel safer, more rested, and content. This will improve his energy and leads to him to being a better version of himself, which in turn helps your relationship with him. 

Becoming Aware

Energy intelligence begins with awareness. We all need to take conscious pauses to reflect.

Ideally, you do this each day at some point, whether in meditation or through journaling. It’s also especially important before you enter physical space with your horse.

Some questions you can ask during this reflection are below; you can ask these about both yourself and your horse.

◆ What does it feel like to have energy? When do I have the most or the least?

◆ How do I know when my energy is flowing well? How do I know when it’s stuck?

◆ What gives me energy?

◆ What depletes or drains my energy?

◆ How do I replenish when my energy is gone?

After this reflection, you can list specifics about your gains and drains for you and your horse. Here are some examples.

Gains:

◆ Healthy food

◆ Restful sleep

◆ Enough water throughout the day

◆ Time spent with loved ones

◆ Main love language is met (see the book The Five Love Languages for more)

Drains:

◆ Being interrupted

◆ Fights and disagreement

◆ Lifting too much and over-working

◆ Feeling ignored or not seen

◆ Not being asked permission

Key Takeaway

There is still much more to explore in this space, so I’ve created an energy intelligence assessment tool for horse lovers/equestrians. If you’d like the document, email me through my website and I’d be happy to provide it.

Until then, remember that increasing your fulfillment through energy intelligence will create sustainable success for you and your horse. You can prevent burnout and grow your deep love for these majestic creatures.

This article about energy intelligence appeared in the April 2024 issue of Horse Illustrated magazine. Click here to subscribe!

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Your Brain: A Quick Tour

The human brain is a complex structure that can process enormous amounts of input in a split second. One of the most vital structures is the brain stem.

Take your hand and feel from the top of your head to the base of your skull. There, where the skull joins the neck, is the brain stem. This is the never-sleeping power plant that controls all the automatic processes that keep us alive: breathing, heartbeat, blood pressure, and so on.

In addition to this autonomic system, our brain has the limbic system, which is involved in our emotional and behavioral responses. Two key components of the brain’s limbic system are the hippocampus (associated with memory) and the amygdala (associated with fear). They in turn regulate the parasympathetic (rest and digest) and sympathetic (fight or flight) nervous systems.

Why Does Neuroscience Matter for Equestrians?

As riders, we just want to ride well, maybe compete successfully, stay calm under pressure, and enjoy the journey with our horse. So why should we care about brain anatomy? The answer is simple: Because it affects everything.

“Neuroscience is at the frontier of giving us the evidence and knowledge to understand what our individual brains and bodies need to be healthy and to learn, grow, adapt and change,” says Misha Bechtolsheim, a sports performance and fitness professional based in California. With over two decades of cumulative knowledge of applied neurology, athletic conditioning, injury rehabilitation, and movement anatomy, she has had the opportunity to support a wide range of clients.

The experiences we’ve had during our lifetime shape our “output”—who we are—and how we respond to situations, stimulus and threats (real or perceived).

But equally vital is the quality of inputs to our brain.

“When we can control the quality of information we provide our brain, we help it make quick, safe, reasonable decisions and allow us to continually expand what we’re capable of,” says Bechtolsheim.

On the other hand, poor quality (or unplanned, reactionary) input can decrease confidence, slow reaction times, and lead to injuries, dementia, high blood pressure, muscle stiffness, vertigo and more.

But there’s good news.

“Our brain is highly adaptable,” says Bechtolsheim. “The importance of neuroplasticity, or brain change, can’t be overstated. It means that not only is it is possible to change dysfunctional patterns of thinking and behaving, but we can develop new mindsets, skills, abilities, and emotional patterns, no matter our age or current skills.”

Your Brain: Care & Feeding

To stay healthy and sharp, our brain needs two things: fuel and activation.

Its fuel is glucose and oxygen. In the next section, you’ll learn how breathing can significantly affect your brain and how you feel, both physically and emotionally.

Activation means “use it or lose it.”

“To grow and adapt, we need to challenge our brains enough so that it’s a bit difficult,” says Bechtolsheim. “The key is to have just enough challenge, but not so much that it triggers overwhelm and fear.”

The latter just leads to the brain going into protective mode and shutting down, much like a horse that’s been pushed too far, too fast.

In addition, your brain is constantly scanning the environment for threat and always asking the question, “Is this dangerous?”

When you can answer “no” with actions and input that instill trust and engage curiosity, then your brain can become comfortable with increasing levels of challenge over time. Before you know it, you may be able to do things you never thought possible because you allowed your brain to stay safe while it was learning it could do more.

Brain Game No. 1: Breathe

Breath work should be a point of focus for everyone, regardless of your level of performance or what activity or sport you do.

“Breathing well [brings more] oxygen to the brain, which reduces the threat that the brain might be experiencing,” says Bechtolsheim.

Because the brain is always scanning for threats, when you’re breathing better, you’re in a more relaxed state.

“[When] you’re feeling more comfortable and not stressed, your nervous system can relax and you are able to perform with greater mobility, focus and ease,” she explains.

Breath work is effective because the mixture of oxygen and carbon dioxide in our bloodstream can change our state of mind.

“Different types of stress can benefit from different ‘mixtures’ to help us feel safe and calm,” adds Bechtolsheim. “For example, prolonged exhales have been shown to induce greater levels of relaxation, improve mood, lower blood pressure, and increase activity in the vagus nerve when compared to longer inhales.”

In addition, breathing affects our physical body.

“Around your diaphragm is the rib cage, which connects to your thoracic spine,” she continues. “The thoracic spine connects to your lumbar [lower back] spine as well as to your neck and shoulders and head. Your lumbar spine also connects to your pelvis, which sits on the saddle.”

Because everything is connected, tightness in your breath can constrict your shoulders, tighten your fingers on the reins, pull your pelvis out of alignment or affect your balance.

“Riding is such a nuanced skill that any small shift or place of tension could mean you’re having one conversation in your head, but your body is telling your horse something completely different,” says Bechtolsheim.

During the day, begin to practice bringing your awareness back to your breath frequently. Is it high and shallow? Deep and low?

To bring your nervous system into a calmer, more regulated state, try the breathing exercises that fit the situation you’re in or the way you’re feeling. If you know certain activities trigger anxiety, breathe consciously before you begin and continue with the breathwork (see below).

Breathwork Exercises

During the day, begin to practice bringing awareness to your breath and increase the quality of your breathing with one of these exercises. For each, repeat the cycle four or five times or for a total of five minutes at a time.

Situation: Anxiety and Nerves

• Inhale: 2 counts
• Hold: 2 counts
• Exhale: 6 counts

Situation: Performance Anxiety

• Inhale: 4 counts
• Hold: 4 counts
• Exhale: 4 counts
• Hold: 4 counts

This is known as box breathing.

Situation: Mind Racing; Getting Ready to Sleep

• Inhale: 4 counts
• Hold: 7 counts
• Exhale: 8 counts

Situation: Confrontation; Being Upset After an Argument

• Inhale deeply
• Exhale deeply with open mouth

Brain Game No. 2: Balance

“Balance is an integral part of fitness and wellness at any age, with any movement, for any sport,” says Bechtolsheim.

It’s no surprise that good balance increases your brain’s feeling of safety and expands your range of abilities into your capable zone (see “Comfort vs. Capable Zones,” pg. 49).

Poor balance, on the other hand, can lead to increased risk of falling, moving without confidence, feeling stiff or getting dizzy. All of these are compounded with riding because the added height when we’re in the saddle increases your brain’s sense of danger because it wants to protect you from falling and injury.

If you want to improve your balance, you have to challenge it—but not provide so much challenge that you can’t succeed, according to Bechtolsheim.

“For this reason, doing balance drills that are too hard and that you can’t do successfully causes stress in the brain and decreases trust in movement.”

As you explore these balance exercises, remember that brain plasticity is driven by novelty and intensity (among other things), so make sure you’re incorporating both.

Balance Exercises

To challenge your balance, stand up and start to explore different positions for your feet, head and eyes, then play with adding speed to these position changes.

Foot Position (from least to most challenging):

• Straight ahead, hip distance apart
• Spread stance, one foot in front of the other. The closer together they are, and the more in-line (like standing on a tightrope), the bigger the challenge.
• Standing on one foot

Head Movement

• Up and down
• Side to side
• Diagonal

Eyes

• Both open
• Both closed
• One eye open

Movement Speed

• Slow
• Medium
• Fast

Layering Challenge

• Put together several aspects at the same time.
• For example, stand with spread stance, close one eye, and move your head.

Remember to have fun with these exercises. Don’t judge yourself or feel that you should somehow be doing better. Just take it slow, breathe, and keep progressing.

Brain Game No. 3: Bounce

If you have a stability ball, you know it’s great for core work and maintaining the good posture you want when you ride. But did you know that bouncing on the ball is an amazing tool for your brain?

“Sitting on the ball and bouncing is great for the lymphatic system, hydrating and stimulating the fascia and providing a low-impact quad workout,” says Bechtolsheim. “It also challenges your visual system and activates your vestibular balance system.”

Start with bouncing and then add auditory and rhythmic training. The combination increases neuroplasticity exponentially.

Here are a few ideas to play with.

• First, sit on the ball and bounce up and down to establish a rhythm.
• Use your hands to tap the side of the ball, then clap them together.
• Vary the rhythm.
• Try alternating sides.
• Do a double clap.
• Time the rhythm both with and against the bounce.
• Create different rhythms and tones.

Remember, the health and brain benefits come from the act of doing the activity, not in the perfection of it.

“Let yourself make ‘mistakes,’ learn from them, grow from them, and just have fun,” says Bechtolsheim.

Not only will you get an awesome quad and cardio workout, but you’ll be creating a lot of plastic change in your brain.

Comfort vs. Capable Zone

You’ve heard of your comfort zone, bud did you know there’s also a “capable zone” and a “threatening zone”?

If you go into the threatening zone, you’re more likely to get injured and be outside your ability level. In comparison, your comfort zone is just that—comfortable.

The problem is that if you stay comfortable, you can’t change, improve or grow. Ironically, the more you stay in your comfort zone, the more threatening and unpredictable everything becomes because you’re not used to anything else.

The key to growing safely and learning is to expand into your capable zone. Here, you can challenge yourself and expand your skill set, tools and experiences. All this makes your brain feel more and more comfortable with trying new things and shifting into problem-solving mode.

Key Takeaway: Brain Power For Life

As you’ve discovered, breathing consciously, improving balance and exploring rhythm through play helps your brain learn, grow and trust in your expanding abilities.

Just a few minutes of brain games a day can help you let go of past limitations and reach higher levels in your riding—and possibly improve other areas of your life as well!

This article about equestrian brain games and neuroscience appeared in the March 2024 issue of Horse Illustrated magazine. Click here to subscribe!

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